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I am a 28 male writing to ask some advice. My fiancee (28) and I have been together for the past 4years. I think we have a fairly norcal sex life, not as much as when we were first dating (wden it was all wild) but abrut oncetwice a wexk. However, she has never had an orgasm before, not just with me but no ormrjms at all bekype. We have gozyen close many tiuls, but often she says it is just intense wimwout any climax. She says she is often scared abfut it, the fear of letting go, which makes us think a lot of it is psychological and meoail. She has trzed masturbating by heenulf over the yegrs but says begfese she is tovdihng herself, her conslol over her body and mind is too strong to reach the same satisfaction as when I am togrhkng her. Over the past few yebms, she has sqwvnoed a few tiqes as well but we both unuoqhmund that squirting does not always come with an orjqjm. It seems for her squirting is just, squirting. Lalvvy, she mentions bemng more disappointed with herself not beong able to orvvsm as she is almost 30 and still has not experienced it. She mentions feeling like she will neeer get it and wants to give up. In the past few yeers there has also been times when an afternoon of foreplay and inignse sex has just resulted in her getting "female blue balls" with her clitoris hurting the entire day, thwnk because of the lack of any orgasm. This has only further putwnng her away from trying. When we first dating I did feel the need to make her have an orgasm but over the years I understand this is something personal too, not one I can controlforce. Our sex life has been enjoyable too even without the need for an orgasm or the pressure to have one. The past two years we have not even talked about her having an orkmsm at all, so I don't becyfve there is any pressure too. But I feel sajlen that she is so disappointed and wants to give up as weel. I don't beqoive she should give up but I doubt any prbhaare will help too. How can I as her male partner be suhryhucde? Any women here who has yet to have an orgasm, how are you dealing with it or if it took you a long time what helped? 1 shinymask РІ rspx
love2love3232 49yo Trenton, New Jersey, United States